• Get Moving. Maybe you
both enjoy tennis or golf, or
just like going for long walks.
Sharing a physical activity on
a first date can help create a
bond that may bring you
closer together while you stay
in shape.
• Is This Art? Create an
artful senior dating experience
by attending a gallery walk or
touring a museum. Everyone
has an opinion about art, so
the conversation is sure to be
lively.
• Cast Off. Rent kayaks, a
row boat, or a canoe and set
sail on a mini-cruise around a
local lake or lagoon. Being on the water will shift your
perspective and make it easier for you and your date
to navigate any awkward moments.
• To Market, To Market. Check out a farmer’s
market or flea market in your area. Browsing among the stalls
and having so many different things to see and discuss will help
keep the conversation flowing.
• Step Right Up. For something a little different, take in a
state or county fair together. You’ll find a wealth of fun things
you can do together—from playing the games on the midway
to comparing notes about the 4-H projects—and strolling the
grounds while you get to know each other will keep things light
and lively.
• Fruit of the Vine. Whether you’re a wine connoisseur or have
trouble telling Cabernet from Merlot, visiting a local winery or
attending a wine tasting together is a great way to get to know
each other while learning something new and sampling one of
life’s true pleasures.
• Literary Interlude. If you both enjoy books, this is a natural
senior dating idea. Attend a reading at a local
bookstore, and then browse the shelves com-
paring notes about your favorite authors and ti-
tles. Follow that up with coffee and dessert, and
you’ve got a first date that could be the start of
a new life chapter.
Now, how can you meet the people who
would be the perfect date for any of these
ideas? As was stated before, by the time you
are a senior citizen, your dating
skills may be a little rusty. And,
that includes meeting people.
Here are several places, or ways to
meet eligible singles:
• Your church or house of worship
• Senior Centers
• At your part time job
• Volunteer opportunities-there are many for seniors,
so get involved!
• Through introductions by friends or family
• Your single neighbors
• At class reunions, or other big events
• Online dating sites, such as “Our Time” or “Match.com”
(Be very careful about these, and make sure you go
through only reputable sites)
• Events such as bingo, dances, or fairs
• Facebook friends
Now you have the “what” and the “how”, let’s discuss
the “why”. If you are lonely, you should know other
seniors feel the same way. To live a full, happy life, meeting
new people and experiencing new adventures are
important. There is no need to feel you are cheating on
your deceased spouse or your ex husband or wife. Marriage
is “until death do us part”, and divorce clears the way to a
new relationship. Resolve to make the new year a time to
make a new life for yourself. Go ahead. Before you know it,
you will have many new reasons to start a new day!
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